Ineed help!? URGENT!!!!????

Question

I have a friend who is 12 and is having sex with a 21year old! She told one of her friends on the basketball team about it and that girl told her mom! Then the mom called the police and he got arressted for one day. She said she was going to stop but she hasn't. He sneaks over to her house at night or she sneaks to his! She doesn't even protect herself! She lost her virginity in 5th grade!!!!!!! Shes been doing it with the same guy! Thats not the worst part he usually does it with two other girls at the same time!!!! I need help i am really scared but i haven't told anybody, shuld i and lose her friendship forever? HELP!!!???

Answer 1

you need t ocall the cops! that is def not okay. first of all if she already thinks shes pregnant...thats sooo not good. shes way to young to be having sex in the first place let alone having a child!!



second of all she could get an std, my guess is that if the guys having sex with two other girls hes not protecting himnself with them either, and if its two other girls it could be ten other girls



i thikn you should call the cops and her mother and have her get tested for pregnancy and STD's because she needs to be safe. it hink it was a really big mistake on her part but she can't take it back now. she needs help.



i think that once you do this/if you do this it will helpo her in the long run, i mean yeah she will be really mad at you for a while but she will realize that she was wrong and will be greatful for the help in turn will be best friends with you again, and thank you





good luck

email me frommy page if you need anything, ever!! k hun, hope this helps :)

Answer 2

This is relatively a well query. It is so difficult to discover your self within the center of a obstacle. If A is a real pal, then discover out whilst A might have time to sit down down to talk about a major quandary in individual. Then sit down down, and speak approximately how matters seem out of your viewpoint. Don't try to interpret how A or B feels, or criticize A for a way they deal with B. Talk approximately how, as a pal, you believe whilst you see how A treats B. Talk approximately the way you might believe if A had been treating you on this means. Ask if there may be whatever you'll do to support B and A get alongside larger. If A suggests no curiosity in replacing the best way B is being dealt with, then make a decision whether or not you'll particularly keep being a pal with anybody who might act on this process deliberately. Don't say that B needs this or feels that - permit B say that themself.

Answer 3

What a dummy your friend is. Let her mess up her own life. See if she can handle having STDs and babies at 12-13 years old. Abortion, see if she can handle that crap, too. And the 21 year old is an a**hole for taking advantage of minors. He should be in jail and convicted as a sex offender and a pedophile. Someone needs to stop him before he goes after other girls. So yeah, you need to tell someone at the school, a teacher, a counselor, someone ASAP. You may be losing a friendship, but you'll be helping to catch a criminal. Good luck, sweetie.

Answer 4

Best thing you can do is tell on her. She doesn't have to know that you are the one that spoke up. If you know he's at her house call the police don't give them your name if you don't want to and report it. You should also inform her mom that you know about what's going on and want to help. Don't be afraid to step up. You really are a true friend if you care about her getting help. She may be mad at you but you could be saving her from a life of misery and she doesn't even know it.

Answer 5

well 1)that 21 is pretty much molesting your friend

2)but then again she seems to like it

3)she needs to stop this, you need to tell a teacher

4)no matter what, be there for her(i guess)

maybe you should report him to the police. just call them and tell them the situation. they'll confront him and maybe then he'll go to jail because he is WAY older then your friend and thats illegal. (i think its illegal, seems right, not sure though cause im only 15.)

tell your mom, your teacher, the police, or anyone who you feel comfortable with.

i wish you and your friend the best of luck.

Answer 6

That 21 year old is a child molester and he should be arrested because she is a minor. I do not understand why he got arrested for 1 day and was released. You need to contact the police and explain to them what is going on because this is not right. Good Luck!!!!

Answer 7

Yes you should tell somebody. This guy sounds like a scumbag 21 years old and with a 12 year old that is sick.

REPORT HIM... And let big bubba in jail teach him a thing or two.

Answer 8

go to the police right now! if she doesnt stop, stop being friends. sooner than you think, she will be influencing you. call the police now! if they just arrest them for one day, tell and them "no! he is a child molester i want him locked up!"

your friend needs to stop it. she may become pregnate! you are so right to try and help. you are a loyal friend :)

OMG! she thinks she is pregnate? tell her to buy a test. also tell her that if she doesnt stop, you arent gonna be friends. her age is wayyy to young to have a baby! it could also kill her! call the cops right now! you may lose a friend, but you are saving a life!

Answer 9

i think that the ppl on this site have some really strange friends but if what shes doin bothers u then i dont kno what to tell u cause its really none of ur bussiness if the cops couldnt keep them apart fat chance that u'll b able 2

Answer 10

yes you should say something



if she were to get pregnant it could kill her because of her age



aside from that this guy is a pervert and should have been arrested for pedophila



i'm shocked the cops only put him in for one day that's crazy

Answer 11

help this girl because she wont help herself... sometimes that what friends have to do...



like the saying friends dont let friends drive drunk.. take their keys even if they get mad..



its time to take her keys... tell someone who can make a difference.. her parents your parents the police. someone, today. dont wait. she is going to get into bad trouble. be a true friend even if she hates you for it. help her. NOW. make it stop. nad he belongs in jail.

Answer 12

CALL THE POLICE!!! Pretend like you are interested in who the guy is, what his name is, where he lives, and all that other mess, and flip the script on her. He needs to be reported. RISK YOUR FRIENDSHIP TO SAVE HER LIFE!!!

Answer 13

The police need to procute that guy. She is only gettign herself in trouble.

Answer 14

well its nice to know of your concern for your friend,and yes it's better to tell elders who trust you and who are wellwishers for your friend abt this problem,a true friend would understand your feelings,afterall you only mean well for your friend,so go ahead and do what best u can.

Answer 15

tell the police or your parents....she will learn in time how good of a friend you are

Answer 16

he is a predator and yes you need to report him to your parents so they can do something. She needs help to figure out why she feels she needs to do this.

Answer 17

How bout you mind your own business.