There's so many mean heartless people out there?!sad,alone?

Question

can some1 help me?
i'm always sad and never want to go out in public cuz radomn people will hurt my feelings
................people always hurt what can i do?can someone give me advice and comfort my only thing out there is music

Answer 1

You should be seeking the advice of a true medical professional for this Unforunately there are going to be people out there in the world who belittle others to make themselves feel better If you choose to let them rule you then they win Only you choose your feelings no one else No one makes you feel any certain way You choose to allow them to have that power over you by giving into it I do suggest you try contacting a medical professional to help you with this Good luck to you ~smile~

Answer 2

You are in luck, I CAN HELP. All those mean heartless people are just people that are trying to be socially accepted and they are using you at their advantage. Be happy with the things you have, be happy that you can go outside and go anywhere you want. There are many places in this world that you can't even go down to the corner without being shot at or confined. If You are having such a tough life, why don't you join the military and come to Iraq and get shot, blown up by IED's and take the chance of being hit by mortar rounds or rocket fire when all you wanted to do is walk half a mile to get a shower. Once you have done that, then tell us how much you dislike the society you live in.

Answer 3

One way or the other, you have experienced a lot of hurts either directly or indirectly earlier on. And I can't blame if that is how you see the world when you go out. But be reassured that there is an answer for it.



Your fear of going out and getting involved with people in varying degrees, has deprived you of certain happiness and contentment in life. I think that this situation of yours is more on how you see and feel towards the things and people around you- but you know what?...there is no need for these things to take control of your life. You must take charge and be in control of your fears. I suggest that you pray to God and ask Him for help. Only He can drive away your fears and help you regain your confidence.



If you do still have a few close friends or family members around you, invite them over to your place for a dinner for instance. Simply take advantage of the time and refresh the bonding amongst yourselves. Ask about any good news that's been happening. I really think that if you invite people who are 'positive' about themselves and the world around them, they will be able to bring in some positive things into your life as well.



Another aspect that you have to consider is whether you have been watching or reading a lot of those sad stories or news? Even those movies that are depressive and violent in nature should not be part of your everyday routine. If you do watch, read or listen to a lot of negative material, what can you expect yourself to think?...I am pretty sure that you can resort to other things that are more productive in nature.



Also, do give yourself a 'chance'. It is a fact that there are still lots of 'bad' things happening around us- but if you keep on letting these things control you or affect you, you won't accomplish anything. You don't have to think too much about these negative stuff. Go out and visit a park or a museum. Or simply take the day off and shop at the store. Or even visit a good friend whom you are really close with.



There is so much more to life that you can really enjoy. Go out and give yourself a break.

Answer 4

You should be seeking the advice of a true medical professional for this Unforunately there are going to be people out there in the world who belittle others to make themselves feel better If you choose to let them rule you then they win Only you choose your feelings no one else No one makes you feel any certain way You choose to allow them to have that power over you by giving into it I do suggest you try contacting a medical professional to help you with this Good luck to you ~smile~













just dont care about anybody in this world.What they things doesnt matter.U lead ur life the way u wanted to .Every morning after u get up try to set ur mind to be happy ,take things easy .Dont talk or try to avoid guys whom you dont like and Enjoy music it cheers you up really.cheers

Answer 5

I am sorry you are sad. I am not sure how old you are but as an adult, people, no many what age, can sometimes be mean and say cruel things. But what is great is there are so many more wonderful people out there that are loving and giving and accepting. You have to look above those folks. Keeping yourself without contact keeps you from meeting those wonderful folks. Overlook those mean people. They can't be happy and I am sure the folks they hang with are equally unhappy. I see many reasons each day to be thankful for good family and friends. I take care of mean people each day but I feel sorry for them. They don't know how wonderful and meaningful life is and how we often take it for granted. Go out, be proud, smile, and you will get smiles in return. Ignore those who have mean spirits...many good wishes for better days ahead......

Answer 6

You must learn not to be affected by others people say to you or think about you. Even when people say or do things that hurt your feelings you must be brave and at least not to show your sadness. You have to pretend that nothing happened and you´ll see that would be easier to endure and you´ll become stronger. You are a special person and no matter the rest.

Answer 7

its true that some people out there are heartless you just have to not give a **** what they say and what they think. i know it may be hard at first but you will eventually find that person (male or female) that will be your friend and will never hurt you on purpose again!! Best wishes, your 14 year old 808 chik

Answer 8

When you are out in public you should not care what people say or do if they are being heartless and mean, if someone is mean or heartless to me i just think in my mind that that person must be very bitter and twisted and nothing nice will happen to them.and i will not let any pooh Head(Yahoo wouldn't let me write the other word)make me sad, (balls to the heartless.) and you Keep smiling.

Answer 9

i know it's hard to not take things personally sometimes...it's a sign of poor self-esteem...what you need is a good boost to make you feel better about yourself...it's because you don't feel good, that you think everyone else does too...

but you know what? good news! geico can save you money by....just kidding! i just wanted to let you know, i suffer from self-esteem issues a lot, but one thing that helps me to remember that even if i don't have the perfect body or i'm not drop-dead gorgeous, that i still have value is God...you know, no matter how much you sin and do bad things, He still is willing to forgive and love you...pretty amazing, isn't it?

other things that i do that boost my self-esteem up are thing like helping people out, whether it's going to my sister-in-law's and helping her clean her house or buying a begger a meal...but it has to come from the heart, you're wanting to help...and when you do nice things, it will make you feel like that's your purpose...you make people happy...it's a really great feeling...

Answer 10

Honey who cares what people say. People are cruel and heartless and they don't care what they say to anyone. I am over weight and when I go out in public there are people who make fun of me and I really and ruly don't care. If I hear themsay something about me or know that they are making fun of me, I will ask them what did you say and they will say oh we weren't talking to you because they are scared of getting their feelings hurt or they are not brave enough to say it to your face. Shake it off and build up your self esteem I use to have really low self esteem but I have to Love myself before I can let someone else love me and no one will look out for you but you. Who cares what those people are saying, they are not paying your bills and feeding you. They are nobody to you. Look in the mirror and smile and tell yourself I love you for who you are.

Answer 11

I feel sorry for you, but I can also relate to your pain. I have a hard time making friends but the good ones really help. Life sucks sometimes, but that's just part of the package!



Check out aol and listen to the song "Unwritten" It'll lift you up!

Answer 12

join in an activity eg: a sporting group or something else that you enjoy...maybe go to concerts? there u will meet people with the same interests. u will feel alot metally stronger if u take up a sporting activity. it works...trust me. also, try to eat healthy food. it will make u feel physically really good and able to take on anything.

Answer 13

Just like your music you HAve to ignore stupidity, be random in the mall or somthing or u could just be like im me and ur u but im minding my bussinessnot bothering u but yet u try to hurt me with ur words. try joing clubs u will find that thier are plenty of good people looking for freind just like you.

Answer 14

It's a very harsh world, I will admit, but don't become one of the mean people. You will always have the Lord, and one day, things will look up.

Answer 15

You like music so listen to empowering and cheerful music then go out with an inspiring song in your mind.

Answer 16

Quit yer whinin'! You think you've got it tough or something? You live a coddled life, compared to the rest of the world. Cowboy up, you're embarrasing yourself.

Answer 17

stop listening to those jerks, i'm sure you have alot of things you want to in your life so do them and stop listening to all the hating, meet new people and make friends. And if you have a bumpy start making friends i'm here!!

Answer 18

just dont care about anybody in this world.What they things doesnt matter.U lead ur life the way u wanted to .Every morning after u get up try to set ur mind to be happy ,take things easy .Dont talk or try to avoid guys whom you dont like and Enjoy music it cheers you up really.cheers

Answer 19

Join a gym! Build a nice physique, this will also help build self confidence!

Answer 20

In my opinion, the world is full of as*holes. Do what I do, I don't give a flying f*** about another persons opinion unless its sincere and that person matters to me.

Answer 21

How do you know that any person will hurt you, when you don't even go out?



Try to trust people. they'll trust u too.

Answer 22

hey grow up. dont feel so sad for urself. there are worst things to happen to ppl.

Answer 23

why concern yourself with the opinions of others most of the time they are wrong and besides we are all human and we all make mistakes.try not to be so sensitive.

Answer 24

i have no idea i feel like that to that's all i have is music to but find a hobby and tell the world to **** themselves

Answer 25

Press play...

Answer 26

i feel like that sometimes and that is easily fixed all you have to do is get confidence than email at [e-mail]

Answer 27

hey man let me tell you ive been there..i care about you dont do anything youll regret ok..please....PLEASE DONT....ive cut and beatin myslef up for things i now regret doing just remember people do care...specially me

Answer 28

the only thing i can say is who cares what people think about you?? you shouldn,t give a damn what people think!

Answer 29

you hHAVE to be more confident people tare gonna take advantage of you if your easy to hurt

Answer 30

honey people are always going to talk about u! what i say when people talk about me is **** u!

Answer 31

don't worry about what other people say to u or think about u .... it is only what u think about yourself that should matter ..... ok

Answer 32

I wonder if you are still alive...



please answer with any comment...

Answer 33

sure email me

Answer 34

stop being a pussy