Question:
i don't have friends , no gf , no social life . i have got one way to do which is to end my life?
zyphler16m
2007-03-14 17:52:50 UTC
how do i end my life
27 answers:
JUDAS RAGE
2007-03-14 19:56:08 UTC
Well the bible doesnt mean much to me either but I do know one think, You only have one life, and its beautiful. When I was a kid I was pissed off and I also thought i wanted to end my life, Most teenagers do, but eventually you get over it. Who gives a **** if you dont have a social life. Get into something like a hobby or a club. No ones gonna know your there if you dont put yourself out there. Besides why would you want to be a rotting corpse, They suck and they dont get to do anything either.
Susan H
2007-03-14 18:06:37 UTC
Suicide is a permanent solution for a temporary problem. Things will get better! Please don't kill yourself- you cannot imagine how devastating suicide is for all of the people who care about you (and there are more than you think!) As for not having a gf, I didn't have a bf until I was 23! Why don't you have any friends? Are you shy? Self-concious? Do you separate yourself from others somehow? I know being a teen-ager is a terribly hard time; I thought about suicide more than once, but I am so glad that I didn't do it. Life gets better, I promise. PLEASE talk to your parents, or a counsleor, or a trusted teacher or pastor about how you feel. There is help out there for you if you ask for it. Get off of the computer and call a suicide hotline right now. (there will be a number in the phone book or local newspaper) Or you can e-mail me if you want to- I'll listen! I'm praying for you right now!
Here I Stand
2007-03-15 03:16:13 UTC
GET URSELF FRIENDS!!

-talk to ppl

-be nice

-be urself



GET URSELF A GF!!

-after you start having friends more ppl will b attracted to u

-talk to girls

-b kind, sweet, funny, charming, & always honest around them



GET URSELF A SOCIAL LIFE!!

-ask ur new found friends if there's ne parties that they kno of going on so u can met new ppl

-hav a party & invite ppl over

-talk to ppl & b more social, thus creating a newly found social life for you



my main point is DON'T KILL YOURSELF!!

death is much worse than ne thing this world could do to you.

you just gotta believe that there is hope for you in the world. that u r here for a purpose (and it doesn't hav to be like "god sent me YOUR NAME HERE to do this and that's the only reason y im here"

u gotta remember u affect others lives as well as your own so u will make a difference in others lives no matter wat, if its making them smile b4 they eat an oreo or even just push them a little to the side and they walk straight into something and you start to crack up).



LIVE YOUR LIFE, YOU WON'T COMPLETELY DREED IT.. or regret it.
Shupert
2007-03-14 18:58:32 UTC
Eat fish, the Omega-3 fatty acids will make you happy.

Besides, I am sixteen, I hate all kids my age, I have never had a boyfriend, the last time I went out on a social event was... dear god, who the hell knows... I am ridiculed for being the smartass that I am, I have never been able to fit in, and no one ever remembers me. Sure, I have had sucidial tendencies... but I got over them... hey, listen to ska. It is amazing! Also, just because you are not social means nothing! Be grateful for your intelligence, family, and life in general. Life is a terrible thing to waste, never lose it... it'll never come back, dude.
Marco S
2007-03-14 18:06:32 UTC
Hey dude, even though i don't know you, please don't end your life. I know what you are going through. I though about ending my life also. But, I'm telling you right now. Don't listen to those people who think they're all that just because they "know" so many people. Personally those are the type of people that make me so sick. Because of their popular conceitedness they make other people down. And don't fall into their traps, just because they act all nice and **** doesn't mean they're real friends. So my advice to you is to go with a small group you see similarities with. For example, if you like some certain type of music, go with people who like that type of music also. But start off small. Like go to the group but talk to one person at that time, who knows they could become that one person who you can talk to about anything. There once you get to make real friends, not people who will talk behind your back, try to go places. Ect. Mall, Park, Each other's houses, or just hang out anywhere you feel comfortable at.



Hope this helps.
2007-03-14 17:59:39 UTC
I actually use to feel the same exact way...

If you trully want to know how to end the life your in right now, it's simple....CHANGE IT

Start doing things you use to think were foolish, if you say you can't get a girlfriend then start asking out every girl you like because you have nothing lose. Just do everything differently starting with your music, i found that the music i listened to strongly influenced my mood, listen to very up beat stuff, nothing dark









Tell yourself this everyday "If I have nothing to lose, then I have everything to gain"





Jball620@yahoo.com I trully want to get to know you bud so e-mail me and we can chat about what on each others minds
luna
2007-03-14 17:56:31 UTC
By starting over. Get out into the world - get involved in something that will give you some meaning in your life. You will meet people that way, too. Volunteer for something. Don't end your life - it's selfish. Think about those who love you and would be left behind.
2007-03-14 17:57:40 UTC
If you were to take your own life the only place you would end up in is hell. Hell is a heck of a lot worse then what you are going through now. Think about what Jesus did. He was crucified on the cross so that you may live and be saved. I recommend seeking help from a christian counsler if you are this depressed.
2007-03-14 17:59:56 UTC
Don't end your life. Theres more to life then friends, girlfriends/boyfriends, and a social life. Trust me, i found all that out too. I used to only have 2 friends in high school. Where are they now? One of them is an alcholoic and selling drugs and the other lives about 6 hours away and i never talk to her.



Life changes after high school. The people you THINK you were friends with, turn out to be compleatly different. And everyone changes. People you NEVER used to talk to, start talking to you. I actually had this experiance last week. i guy i went to school with that i NEVER used to talk to, got hired by my mom (i hang out at my moms work alot) and we started talking. Now we are kind of friends. We hang out sometimes.



Everyone changes after high school. Just stick it out. Stick to your studies and get a good education. Trust me, thats the best thing you can do.



Good Luck, and please, don't kill yourself.
2007-03-14 18:01:54 UTC
I've wanted to end my life before(rough family problems) I've even attempted it.i know what it feels like to not want to see another day.But don't be as stupid as I was and attempt something like suicide.Just think of tomorrow as a fresh start.You're depressed tonight, fix it all tomorrow.Make new friends, do new things, enjoy yourself, find love, and learn to love to live....and start it all tomorrow. Forget the depression and pain as hard as it may be.There is still hope and love for you.And never forget to keep a friend in God.
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2007-03-14 17:56:14 UTC
Read the Bible and you won't have to end your life. You have a friend in God. Heck, I'll be your friend.
living the life
2007-03-14 18:25:50 UTC
do not kill ur self plenty of ppl love you

you will find a gf when the time is right and try to be more appealing but b yourself if you dont believe in the bible im not gonna waist my time telling you all the things in the bible about perserving what GOD has given to you ... but i am gonna say if you find GOD your life will be much better...



PLZ DO NOT KILL YOURSELF IT ISNT A SOULUTION!!!
onlyme
2007-03-14 17:56:33 UTC
why on earth would you want to as you never know whats round the corner,get out and do new stuff,take up a hobby go to college or night classes,your not going to meet new friends sitting at home!
2007-03-14 17:59:52 UTC
don't end it start going to online friend online dating and stuf.go to search and type how to get online friends

so if you do it that way you stil have a live but online and it will start to get better.
mypupismylove
2007-03-14 17:56:32 UTC
hey man dont end your life its not worth it your alive for a reason keep faith in that! life will get better it always will have ups and downs dont worry please dont make it hard on yourself!
bunnies6499
2007-03-14 17:57:24 UTC
suicide is not the answer, no matter what never resort to killing yourself, if you kill yourself someone will miss you, think of them, and think of what you can be doing to get friends, to get a social life, to get a girlfriend, dont kill yourself because even if you think no one else will care, you know that i will, i will be sad if you kill yourself, please dont do it.
2007-03-14 18:16:16 UTC
Please don't kill yourself! No matter what happens, God is always there for you. It sounds like your life isn't that great at the moment, but there is always a second chance. Please dont do this! God cares about you and I do too.
darkpayaso
2007-03-14 17:55:26 UTC
LIVE



dats how u end it





think about it
.::$*Mrs.Smith*$::.
2007-03-14 17:57:13 UTC
i don't think you sould end your life if you want i will be your friend e-mail me at cheerleaderchick9988@yahoo.com
AC
2007-03-14 17:57:00 UTC
You need help. You should go to your parents or your school counsel.
vgigaijin
2007-03-14 17:56:55 UTC
call suicicde prevention 1800 suicide..they are good and listen to you
2007-03-14 18:25:15 UTC
dude... please ... dont kill your self... i used to have no freinds... but then i just started talking to other people and got freinds...





hope diz helps♥
Go Blue
2007-03-14 19:37:16 UTC
not a serious question
Fun lovin girl
2007-03-14 19:17:16 UTC
NOOOOOOOO!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! DONT DO IT!!!!!!!!!!



DUDE, THAT IS NOT THE ANSWER.
Gloom and Doom™
2007-03-14 19:02:00 UTC
dont do it.
hank w
2007-03-14 19:59:44 UTC
DONT KILL YOURSELF
2007-03-14 17:56:56 UTC
um...DON'T!!!


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