Is this a good way to ask her out?

Question

There is a Easter Party in our classroom next week at an after-school club and there will be snacks, drinks, softly-played music, etc.

I want to ask her out for the day after/next day and my friend helped me devise this strategy but I don't know if its good or not:

- I'm usually known to be singing songs at that after-school club, so I will get someone to request "She Will Be Loved" by Maroon 5 for me to sing.

- The night before the party, I'll online chat with her, telling her to listen to me perform requests the next day.

- Make sure she's listening as I'm singing, and look at her very often

- Don't sing the whole song, a quick run of the verse and chorus

- After I'm done look her in the eye, walk towards her, and ask her if she would like to "hang out the next day at the mall" (its the only place in our boring town worth going to lol)


Would it be too early/creepy to do this? Me and her have been texting heavily all week after recently finding out that we actually have a lot in common (we're both geeks in the same rare subject lol) and that some of our best friends are actually the same people. I really feel a connection.

However, I don't want to scare her off by going too strong as she is a very shy girl.

Would I risk going into the "Friend Zone" if I ask her to "Hang Out" instead of a "Date" as I want her to get rid of the shyness around me first?

Thanks

Answer 1

I'm also a really shy girl I would LOVE to have a guy do that for me. Unless you aren't a really good singerand/or I wasn't attracted to you and I liked someone else. You should ask her out on a date not just a hang out cuz there is a chance you could get sucked into friend zone.



Best of luck to you:)!



Hope it turns out well.

Answer 2

I'm a girl and seeing all this planned out, I think it's a little to much. Just go up to her and ask her out. BE A MAN. Pull her aside and do it. Good Luck!!!

Answer 3

i agree with haley. it can be overwhelming to have some guy come singing to u asking you out in front of everyone. just pull her aside or just go up to her in the club and ask her out.

Answer 4

man up and text her and say hey you wanna go out for pizza or whatever with me tomorrow...stop over thinking this...too much might scare her...just text her in conversation and go from there...you need to get her away from her friend it sounds like

Answer 5

That seems pretty anticlimactic, the whole mall part. You should revise that a little.