Is it unhealthy/inappropriate for a 13-year-old to look up lingerie/bikini shots?

Question

If you're a girl or a woman, you'll probably be offended by this.

Hi, I'm 13 years old and I have a habit. I often look up bikini/lingerie shots because of the boobs/*** (obviously). I don't look up porn, but even just this feels bad and good at the same time. I have really been wondering if this is mostly bad lately, because a lot of the time I feel guilty about it.

Some of my friends SAY they look up porn, which makes me feel better, but if my parents found out, I'd be dead. I know about deleting history, and cookies and all that stuff, and I have my own computer, so they probably won't find out.

Will doing this give me bad sexual endurance later?
Is it weird?
Is it normal?

Please answer, because it's been biting me for a while.

Answer 1

It's fine. The hormones start kicking in around 13

Answer 2

I wouldn't say it's appropriate... But it's not exactly bad either.

Where are you finding these pictures? If they're just from the Victoria's Secret website or something, then that's not so bad. But if they're random sl*tty websites, then who knows what kind of viruses you could be picking up.

I'm sure a lot of boys your age do this, and I don't think it's unhealthy, as long as it isn't taking up a lot of your time. Make sure you're safe about it, and don't get unrealistic ideas about women and sex.

And if you feel bad about, then don't do it. I'm sure you can just use your imagination. :P

Answer 3

It is absolutely normal. You're 13 and your hormones are funny and you begin to feel sexual feelings and think sexual thoughts. Many 13 year old's do this because they are discovering their sexuality or mainly because it actually just makes them feel 'good'. Completely normal.

Answer 4

Well, it's pretty normal for teen boys to look a porn. (not that I approve) I don't think it will affect your sexual endurance, I mean, you don't *** every 5 sec, do you? I heard it helps with masturbation...

Answer 5

It's fairly normal. It's a lot more honourable than looking at pics of completely naked people (though that actually is the norm for boys your age), I'll tell ya that.

Answer 6

Well, I'm offended, but it's normal. I don't do that with guys pictures though. I think it a different feeling with girls?