I'm so unhappy with this relationship, what do I do?

Question

My boyfriend sucks major @ss.
Today he had a major flip out because I'm "ignoring him". He said he sent me a message on facebook and i'm not replying so I must hate him. I never got a f***ing message! I told him this and he's like "noo you just don't wanna answer me!"
He's really clingy and jealous and needs me to talk to him every second of every day. (If you want to see what I mean, here's a link to another question about him: http://answers.yahoo.com/question/index;_ylt=AhU29zMcpJlT4x32LTyPbYTty6IX;_ylv=3?qid=20091226182420AAm10uL )
I'm so pissed at him right now I lied and told him I had to go just to get away from talking with him.
It's like he can't even stand up without me telling him how to.
Is there ANYTHING I can do to fix this relationship, or should I just break up with him?

Answer 1

Well if you want to try and fix the relationship, you will have to sit down with him and tell him everything that bothers you, don't hold back at all. Don't be rude or mean either when you tell him that he's clingy and all that. Try to be calm and caring when you tell him yet be serious enough that he will hopefully get the message.

If you don't want to try and fix things, then just break up with him, but once again try to be as nice as you can be about it. If he freaks out just walk away and tell him you will talk to him when he calms down.

Answer 2

Wow he sounds like a pest.



Honestly, I think you should break up with him. It might breifly make your situation worse- he'll probably bother you even more- but nothing's going to come of this relationship and you'll end up breaking up anyway eventually. I mean it doesn't sound like you want to marry this guy and he's just making you unhappy, so I would break it off.

Answer 3

No. If he's like this now, chances are he'll stay like that. And get worse as the relationship goes on.



I suppose you could try telling him he's too clingy and to back off a bit?

Answer 4

Sorry but if your unhappy now, it's most likely your gonna be unhappy i a year or 2.

so i would just break up with him. trust me, my friend is went out with this guy named tyler once and

man he was waaayyyyy to clingy! he just wouldn't let her go. she dumped him after like 5 days,...

i felt sorry for her.

Answer 5

I agree with all the other users here.

But if/when you do break up with him, Lissy be careful.

He may be one of those super clingy ex-boyfriends. Make sure he won't hurt you, if you find someone else.

Just saying, be careful.

But I'm sure you'll do the right thing.

=]

Answer 6

Dump is needy butt. sorry, but he is supposed to be your boyfriend...NOT your little brother. If you are that angry with him and unhappy why the hell would you want to stay with him? I say dump him. You need someone on that you can equally depend on. you shouldn't want to ignore your boyfriend and you should have a boyfriend that acts like that. it's like you have to babysit him. that's ridiculous. dump him. dump him. dump him. dump him. dump him. yeah... that's what I think. I don't know how else to say it so I said it a million times. You're welcome. :)

Answer 7

if you're miserable, you should end it. he sounds like a lifesuck. you're young. you shouldn't have to worry about clingy boyfriends. this is your time to be young and do whatever you want, not to be tied down to one boy who makes you miserable and clings to you. i had a boyfriend who was the same way, and i ended things with him, and it was one of the best things i've ever done for myself.

Answer 8

Lissy, you are young, and fun and pretty. He sounds like a dick, no offense;]

I say break up with him, you have plenty of time to find someone new. And it doesn't even sound like there's any underlying love here haha

Answer 9

Break up with him. If he's that obsessive now, it's only going to get worse in the future.

Answer 10

If it's one characteristic I can't stand...it's clingy/needy people.

...Like you said, just break up with him. Obviously you're young and relationships don't need to be serious if you don't want them to be.

Answer 11

Omg. I had a boyfriend just like him. It was soo scary. Break up with him now. It will get so bad if you don't.

Answer 12

lol it sounds like you are the dominant one in the relationship. Break up with him. He sounds like a douche, and not very mature. Can you really see your self with him in a year from now? :)

Answer 13

Is it even worth it to try to fix things? Just dump him.

Answer 14

Caught in a Bad Romance?



Well, I want your love, and I want your revenge, I want your love I don't wanna be friends.

Answer 15

If you're that unhappy with him (and I did read your other question) then you should break up with him. He seems like he is way too. . . attached.

Answer 16

Just dump him if you're unhappy.

Answer 17

seems like an ******. dump that a$$