What should i do if i'm pregnant?

Question

Information: I'm 17 and almost out of high school. I've been using a birth control shot for about 5 months now, but we've been having unprotected sex for a few months.My boyfriend and i have been dating for almost a year, it'll be a year this month. Some reasons why i think i'm pregnant: I've been really hungry/craving very specific foods, i've gained a few pounds, and i've been getting very nauseous (even though i haven't actually thrown up, i came very close this morning getting coffee at the local corner store), and I've been really tired, all the time. I could just be gaining the weight from the sonoran hot dogs I've been craving and maybe i'm just tired and coming down with something. But What if i am pregnant? What am i supposed to do? I'm not ready to have a child. Mentally yes, i'm ready to be a mom. But what about all the things i want to do in life? My first choice would be abortion, but my mom is against abortions and i know she wouldn't take me or let me use her insurance. And if i get an abortion, could you imagine what it would do to my relationship with my mother? I guess i just need some advice. And i have talked about this with my boyfriend, but we've never gone to in depth about it. He's bringing over a 'test' today so we can find out. i'm at home because i almost puked at the store. Serious answers please.

Answer 1

get a job start saving up and get gov benifets and remember

CLOSE EM LEGS

Answer 2

i never gave abortion much thought until i looked at a site and saw exactly what happens to those poor babies. they literally torture the baby before its killed. it can feel everything that is happening to it. they start by opening the womans cervix, then they take forceps to grab the baby. they try to pull the body slightly out of the womb but usually the little limbs are not very strong so some of the limbs rib off, if that happens they reach back in and grab maybe the little arm, oops Again that rips off. so now after most of his little limbs are partially severed (while baby is still alive and feeling this) they have the baby hanging out of the cervix, while the head is still in the cervix they take a large scissor type instrument and stab in into the back of the head (baby is usually still alive at this Point and feeling it) then after making the hole in the back of the head they then take a vacuum sort of tube and suck the brains out. which finally ends the poor little childs life. after all of that suffering. my words dont even do justice to what the pictures show. you see a little arm and hand with fingernails lying on the table lying next to a tiny little leg, with a severed head next to it. you can see the little lips on the baby making a frown. they feel every bit of this slow torture. every woman thinking of an abortion should be shown the exact process of what will happen to the poor child, i guarantee woman with their minds made up will walk out of that clinic with a different thought process. im sure most would keep their babies. i dont understand why this is not a mandatory thing. woman are so fooled into thinking the life hasnt even formed yet meanwhile when the abortion takes place is usually three months. the baby is a COMPLETELY formed baby at that point, just a small version of a newborn.they have little fingerprints at that point, their own little hair pattern, they are in the amniotic sac sucking their little thumbs, giving little kicks, listen to their mommas voice, being happy, being sad, yawning, feeling you touch him through your belly. they are completely living feeling little beings at that point.

Answer 3

you are not alone.



If we believe all the "I'm only 14 & pregnant:" posts at least 20+ teens a day THINK THEY ARE or find out they are pregnant & post it on Yahoo Answers.



That means 20 (teens) x30 (days a month) = 600 teens a month get pregnant according to Yahoo Answers.



Rates of teen pregnancy have dropped - http://voices.washingtonpost.com/checkup/2010/12/teen_birth_rate_hits_record_lo.html

nearly 5% of all teens aged 15 to 19 - gave birth in California, - ONLY 5% in CA alone. A HUGE state.

http://www.cde.ca.gov/ls/cg/pp/teenpregnancy.asp



This is why I say at least 25% of more of the questions on here are lies (trolls)



My Answer - Take a pregnancy test

Answer 4

Hopefully you aren't pregnant... If you are... abortion isn't always an "Evil" choice. I know mom wouldn't like it. But I see lots of girls who don't want mom to know at our clinic. If its done early she doesn't need to know. And, you can get funding for it without her insurance. Its a choice only you can make. If you want to talk it through - catch me on messenger. And, see the link below for more info and a form to request funding. It can take a couple weeks to get approved so you may want to request it now so its ready - and if its not needed, great.

Answer 5

your mother is right if i was you i would give baby up for adoption