We been having sex?

Question

My boyfriend and I decided on having sex like 2 months ago we have been together for like 3 yrs.Don't say stop doing it or anything like that cuz we know abt pregnance and std's.(we use protection)(I know is only 99%). Were 15 so were old enough.Okay so my mom and his mom are like best friends since middle school so he basically lives at my house.Yestarday at dinner his mom was like next week where goning to go see if ur having sex and we though they were kiddin, but my mom was like its not a joke. My mom is always playin jokes on me so. Can the doctor find out weather or not I been having sex.Or is it just another joke cuz were freaking out.

Answer 1

your mom could say it to see your reaction so she can determine whether you are having sex or not. the doctor cannot determine, "YES, she has been having sexual intercourse and thus not a virgin" but he CAN take a look at your hymen to see if it has been broken, and if so, how much of it is broken to determine that you either had broken it by: strenuous activity like horse back ridding, or sexual intercourse (or some activity involving object(s) penetration), or giving birth to a child etc. so that would mean you need some type of excuse for your mother. could she be joking? of course! a lot of states in america have a "protection" for minors who are sexually active--they keep their visits and information confidential unless life-threatening or rape and such. this helps minors who ARE sexually active feel "safer" and thus are willing to go to clinics and doctor offices to get checked up and learn more about intercourse and its consequences to prevent unwanted unplanned pregnancies/STD's/rape etc etc.



but now for my opinion! :) you're 15 years old, you're not old enough to have sex. you can't even watch a rated R film yet, nor can you buy a slingshot in the state of Washington. that most definitely shows that you're not old enough for sex (well, of course you ARE technically because you're supposedly "physically" ready) another factor that makes me believe you're not old enough is the fact that you can't even spell properly or use the right spelling for the word you're looking for. here are a few examples:



pregnance = pregnancy (could've been a typo, but the 'e' and 'y' are actually somewhat far apart on the keyboard)

yestarday = yesterday

weather = whether



and this doesn't include the typos or common short-hand typings like:

abt = about

were = we're

goning = going

though = thought



... etc etc. im sure you know what i mean.



another thought. being together for "like 3 years" when you're 15 means "dating" since you were 12. i'm sorry but, when were 12-year-old datings ever mature enough to be called "relationships?"



next thought--protection isnt always 99%, even if used properly. there are many many forms of 'protection' and very few actually HAVE that 99% effectivity. it'd be nice if it was! but it isn't.



i'm not going to tell you to stop having sex because it's not my place--just my 2 cents :)

Answer 2

the doctor can tell if your hymen is broken, but that can happen with tampons. But fyi, if you know so much about pregnancy, birth control, condoms, and std's, then you wouldn't be having sex. Because you'd know that even though condoms and birth control work that 99% of the time, that's only if done properly. There's no telling whether a condom is going to slip off or break. Then you'd think about the fact that if you got an std, it may be an incurable one that would leave you miserable. You'd also know that pregnancy changes a persons life. Even if you think you'd have an abortion, your life would change, maybe even more so with an abortion. How many girls has your boyfriend been with? What makes you so sure 15 is old enough for sex? Because you have hormones and you want to? I'll see maturity in you when you realize that sex is not as casual as people want you to believe and that it really is better just to wait, because even though you think you're not one of "those girls" that get pregnant and get syphillis, none of "those girls" really planned on it either.

Answer 3

First of all, how rude for your mothers to say that whether it's a joke or not.



Second, I don't agree that 15 is old enough to be having sex. You say you already know that birth control isn't 100% effective, so I hope you are mature enough to raise a baby if you do get pregnant. You should think more of yourself than putting yourself at risk.



And as far as the doctor telling, I'm not sure. They say if the hymen is broken then that's a sign but that can also get broken if you are very active in vigoruous sports.



I wouldn't worry too much about that, but I would worry about how sick your mothers are by saying they'll take you to the doc for this.

Answer 4

yes an OB/GYN can tell if you have had sex. just like doctors can tell if a girl had ben raped. I know that I started havng sex at age 15 and a halh but i think you are too young.I'm 19 almost 20 and happily married with a almost 3 years old and 27 and a half weeks with girl #2. We had our first whe I was 16 and a half and he was 17. since i bet you won't stop having sex just please be VERY careful. it's not easy being a teenage mom. I wouldn't change my life for anything though.

Answer 5

of course the doctor will know by looking at the entrance of the vigina all virgin womens or girl have an hymenal ring usually gets disrupted after a woman had a sexual intercourse. in short the hymen is the membrane that blocks the opening to the vagina. Well if you are too scare to tell your mom, if she drop you to the doctor just as to be by yourself with the doctor for him explain it softly to your mom so she wont get mad or simply tell him to tell nothing to your mom.

But it is always good to tell the truth to your parents, in case of a problem they should be there to support you.

Very good point that you are using condom keep it like that i can't juge you every girls pass through it.

Be safe. :-)

Answer 6

annie:) couldn't have said it better.... She is exactly right.... let me tell you I was having sex and on birth control and now have a 1 yr old little boy... I had my little boy when I was 20 and that 5 YEARS older than you and let me tell you it wasn't easy... if I didn't have a wonderful husband there to help me with my little boy I don't know if I could have did it.... listen to me.... I know where you are coming from.. when I was fifteen I wanted to be older than I was as well but please wait and enjoy your youth because once you do something that forces you to grow up there is no going back...... just be careful... take extra precautions and if you insist on having sex then please go ask you mom for birth control and use condoms and take anyother precautions !!!!

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Well the doc can see if the open is ripped or but itr can all so happen by playing sports. So no but just dont be actin like u doin something bad

Answer 9

first of all 15 is so NOT old enough to be having sex!!



now thats thats said...



yes a doctor can tell if a girl has been having sex but he cant tell if a guy has been having sex.

Answer 10

That seem off. The doctor might can tell if you been having sex if your hyme been broken. I think the best thing to do for both of you to tell your parents now that you having sex and have been using condoms.

Answer 11

Oh yeah the doctor will know right away, and NO 15 is not old enough to have sex, because if it were, you wonldn't be afraid that your mommie's gonna find out, now would you?

Answer 12

No, he can't.



Despite what people say, the hymen that is usually linked to a girls virginity can be broken by strenuous activity such as sports or horseback riding.

Answer 13

The doctor can probably see if your hymen has been broken, and that can be used to tell if you are a virgin or not.



However, although horrifyingly embarrassing, you can tell your parents/doctor that you have been masturbating (girls can do it to) and that is why it is broken. Tell them you've used a hairbrush or something.

Answer 14

No, the doctor won't know if you have or not. It is probably just a joke.

Answer 15

Yeah, he will because your hymen will be broken if you have had sex. Plus they can tell if you stick shizz up there. Wow that is tough..Good luck I hope they are kidding!!

Answer 16

Yes he can, but you seem to know everything so why are you worried.

Answer 17

No, you are fifteen so you ARE NOT old enough. haha

Answer 18

the doctor cant tell. dont worry.

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Answer 19

yes my dear the Dr. can tell. He can tell if a girl is having sex.

Answer 20

yes doctors can tell if you have been having sex

cuz when you have sex

a thin peice of skin in ur vagina ripps and yeah

thats wat doctors look at

so yeah

it could be a joke

but idk

Answer 21

No(: