May you all please answer my very important SEX survey-pros & cons?

anonymous

2007-12-20 19:21:18 UTC

A. Sex is best when saved for marriage. Pregnancy, same story. Masturbation..don't care if you do it, just don't tell me.

B. BAD idea..Teen sex leads to teen parenting..HORRIBLE idea, since very few teens have jobs, their own place to live, and can support a child without going on welfare.

C. Not as bad, but still bad. Being slutty is always bad.

D. Best way to do it.

E. Oral, BAD. You can get many bad infections by doing that. Same for anal sex. Vaginal sex is the best way.

F. Doesn't happen when in marriage and both partners are faithful.

G. Don't believe in that.

H. Never experienced it.

I. BAD idea. There are ALWAYS strings attached for the women in that.

J. WONDERFUL IDEA! God bless the people doing that.

K. Temporary is fine. It's when it's depended upon for years because people choose to get stupid when it's so bad.

L. Miscarriage can't be helped unless the mother does drugs or something. Abortion, bad idea. Why should the baby pay with it's life because two people choose to get stupid? Adoption would be best if these people don't want to raise it. There is guilt associated with abortion. Planned Parenthood doesn't tell you all the negative consequences to abortion. I have had friends do it, and they still suffer years later.

Done

2007-12-21 02:50:55 UTC

A-What's your viewpoint on sex, pregnancy, & masturbation in general?

~Sex should be saved for when you plan on being with a person for the rest of your life. If you get pregnant at a young age, it is your fault and you should pay the consequences. And if you want to masturbate, then whatever, it's your body

B-Teen sex & pregnancy?

~Teen sex is not for me. If others wish to do that, then once again, it is their body. They can do what they wish. But, they need to be educated.

C-ADULT sex & pregnancy out of wedlock?

~If that is what you want to do, then so be it. But, if you get pregnant, and you're not married and you and the father break up, then your child is going to have a really tough life. I know it.

D-Sex/pregnancy WITHIN the marriage?

~I think it is perfectly fine within a HEALTHY marriage. But, unheathly, abusive marriages just don't work with pregnancy.

E-Oral, anal, & vaginal sex?

~Well, you just need to be as careful as possible. It's your body and it is a temple. You must take care of it.

F-STD's?

~I know people who have STD's, and it is terrible for them. I believe that STD's are a rising epidemic. And it needs to be stopped.

G-Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered sex?

~It is your life. You may live it as you please. And have sex with whoever you want. I'm not here to judge. But, once again, you just have to be careful.

H-Giving birth-the pain & the joy?

~Well, I wouldn't personally know. But from what I know (secondhand), the joy often times overwhelms the pain. Which makes it much better.

I-Promiscuity &/or no strings attached sex?

~I hate it. And I am totally against it.

J-Abstinence?

~I am abstinent, and I plan on it until marriage. I think that all teens should practice abstinence at least until after high school.

K-The welfare system, like Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) & medicaid programs?

~I believe it is very helpful. And they are good programs. No one should have to worry about whether they can get to the doctors or whether they are going to have food for that week.

L-Miscarriage &/or abortion & grief, guilt, & consequences?

~MIscarriages happen. And it is very unfortunate. I am neither for nor against abortion. I don't have an opinion on it. If that's what you want, do what you will.

Velken

2007-12-21 02:47:05 UTC

A. Its something you shouldn't do lightly. Self-pleasure won't give you a baby or HIV!

B. It happens.

C. It happens. I feel really sorry for the baby that comes from it.

D. Good, if BOTH people want the baby. I think having a kid to try and "save a marriage" is one of the worst ways to bring a child into the world.

E. If its in marriage and noone is cheating, its only their business.

F. Sadly unnecessary. If the people had waited until the right person came along, they might not have gotten an STD. I really dislike the idea of casual sex.

G. No thank you. I think its unnatural.

H. Scary. I'm preggy now (#4) and as excited as I am, I hate the delivery part. Holding the baby afterwards makes it worth the pain.

I. Sad. Why do that to yourself? Aren't you worth more? I know I am.

J. Good idea, but not everyone does. I've only had 1 partner, my hubby, but I didn't save myself till marriage. First came love, next came baby, then came marriage.

K. I think its a worthy program. I'd rather have a good system being abused by a few people than no system at all. It really really helps alot of families that need it badly.

L. There is nothing you can do about a miscarriage except grieve. I feel horrible for those women. I think abortion is a horrid choice. They say its a woman's choice, but the baby never gets a choice.....

Sam B

2007-12-21 02:27:22 UTC

A-What's your viewpoint on sex, pregnancy, & masturbation in general?

Umm sex is fine as long as your safe and emotionaly ready and mature enough to handle consequences. For masturbation I really don't care what other people do.

B-Teen sex & pregnancy?

If they are mature enough to handle the consequences, are safe and have known the person for a while its okay.

C-ADULT sex & pregnancy out of wedlock?

Same as teen answer

D-Sex/pregnancy WITHIN the marriage?

Umm go for it

E-Oral, anal, & vaginal sex?

Ehh I don't have any issues with any of them

F-STD's?

Be safe and get tested

G-Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered sex?

Same as the teen and adult sex

H-Giving birth-the pain & the joy?

Umm

I-Promiscuity &/or no strings attached sex?

I don't think thats good

J-Abstinence?

If thats what you want go for it

K-The welfare system, like Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) & medicaid programs?

I think its overused

L-Miscarriage &/or abortion & grief, guilt, & consequences?

I don't believe in abortion... Miscarriage is very sad

Shelby

2007-12-21 02:46:31 UTC

A- NORMAL

B- Normal 2, you used to get married at 16 and if you weren't you were abnormal. i understand that we have "grown" past that but the pressure is still there.

C- a LOT of people don't want to be committed... it's not a bad thing to have a baby out f wedlock....usually it is the financial problems.

D-if you have made that committment, planned it and are ready you are prepared... basically you and your partner are prepared.

E-oral and vaginal im familiar with but anal....no..in the 1800's it was the thing to do to keep your virginity.

F- people should be more careful...watch who you deal with and use protection. is sex that important?

G- if that is who you are attracted to it is ok

H-i have never givin birth...

I- people have become so distant... emotions don't play a major part anymore everything is rushed...it is all about the feelings

J- the best and safest way....but who can really do it?

K- if you need it... don't abuse the system

L- i am so for abortions...if you aren't ready for a child, then don't have it... don't make a life if you can't support it.

anonymous

2007-12-21 04:30:40 UTC

A-What's your viewpoint on sex, pregnancy, & masturbation in general? i think people should wait untill they are married but who am i to tell them they cant

B-Teen sex & pregnancy? i think its a shame but i think those young girls and men learn from there mistakes and accept the consequences

C-ADULT sex & pregnancy out of wedlock?huh?

D-Sex/pregnancy WITHIN the marriage? sure, if they want to

E-Oral, anal, & vaginal sex? like which one? umm all?

F-STD's? i think it keeps people thinking about sex

G-Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered sex? well i am a christian girl, but i have no problem with any of them, i dont judge them i think they can choose what they want to be

H-Giving birth-the pain & the joy? ive never givin birth

I-Promiscuity &/or no strings attached sex?i think you should be doing it with the person you love, but again im not here to boss people around

J-Abstinence?i think its a great way to respect your body

K-The welfare system, like Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) & medicaid programs?great

L-Miscarriage &/or abortion & grief, guilt, & consequences? i think that all those things are for a reason, weather to face reality, or really takeing responsibility for your actions

i ♥ sarcasm

2007-12-21 02:40:07 UTC

a-when a person choose to have sex is their buissness. they, however should by no means get pregnant or get someone else pregnant if they aren't severely commited. masturbation is perfectly fine and healthy, though.

b-teens are going to have sex, no matter what people do or say. and teens are in return going to get pregnant, no matter what you do or say. they shouldn't, but they do.

c-they're adults. they know what they're getting themselves into. they should therefor make wiser decisions about sex and pregnancy, but many times they don't.

d-sex and pregnancy within marraige is perfectly legal, fine, and normal.

e-in many places, only vaginal sex is legal, and anal and oral are illegal. therefor, legally only vaginal sex is okay, but i think there's next to know difference between them and all should be allowed and are fine.

f-STD's should be something huge, as it is in real life. but people still think that they can't get one or that it's not a big deal.

g-they're still human beings. it's just as normal for them as it is for someone straight or nontransgendered.

h-giving birth is just that-giving life to another being. no matter what, through all the pain, it's worth it.

i-people have the right to live their lives the way they want to. if they want to be promiscuous and have no strings attached sex, then that's their decision and they should be careful.

j-abstinence is the only way to be positve that you aren't getting pregnant or STD's. it's a beautiful thing that holds amasing value.

k-they're great programs, and help a lot of people that really need and appreciate it.

l-miscarraige can be very sad, but it happens. peole need to be able to respectfully mourn and move on, try again if they must. abortion is the choice you make, so you should be able to deal with the consequences.

hope i helped!

STRESSED spells DESSERTS

2007-12-21 02:26:47 UTC

A) Sex should be for adults & for people in committed relationships. Pregnancy is for adults not little kids who want to feel loved. Masturbation is normal and actually very healthy (I'd prefer it if a lot more of these kids out here would masturbate then to have sex)http://www.coolnurse.com/masturbation.htm

B) The Age of consent SHOULD be lowered to 16 because by that age you know what sex is and how babies are made and you should be able to be held responsible for your actions. Teen pregnancy is something we should really try to lower even more. And it shouldn't be taken lightly. In a lot of ways they had the right idea in the 50's, 60's, and so on up until the 90's.

C) Adult Sex: Like I said it should be in committed relationships. It shouldn't be done just cause and with every person that comes along. Adult pregnancy out of wedlock. . ..Well I was raised that babies conceived out of wedlock was a shameful thing. But I think that it's a lot better then some 14 year old who can't even get married yet or have a job.

D)Perfectly fine. Although they should remember that babies are not problem solvers for that fight the couple keeps happening.

E) Vaginal Sex is for adults: someone who can take care of and except the consequences (that includes pregnancy and STD's) Anal Sex is well it's gross there is no way around that, but it's like vaginal sex it's for adults: someone who can take care of and except consequences. Oral Sex is the same. It is for adults.

F) STD's Well they should be taught about more.

G) Just like the others S-E-X is for adults.

H) I've never given birth. However I think the pain would be well worth seeing my tiny little baby that I made out of love with my husband. Joy is knowing that I'll be able to give him or her every tool possible to make their lives as good and well rounded as possible.

I) No strings attached sex is completely unacceptable.

J) Is the only 100% way to prevent pregnancy. It is the best thing. Although I'm not going to sit here and be a hypocrite. I'll admit I'm not a virgin although I waited for my fiancee and he waited for me

K) The welfare system is flawed. People can get on but there is no plan to get them off. It's a good thing when the right people get it. Those people should be people that have jobs and that are checked on occasion randomly for drugs to make sure that the people aren't sucking the government dry just because they're druggies that can't hold a job because of their own stupid actions

L) Miscarriages are a shame and my heart aches for anyone who has experienced one. I hope that none of those women feel guilty and I hope that they find a positive thing to focus on in their lives when something this horrible happens. Abortions- I'm pro-choice. I think that it takes a very brave person to be able to do that and live with the guilt of it. I don't think that I could ever do it, but I'll fight to the end for anyone else out there to have that choice. Babies should be loved & wanted and brought into this world in a loving environment.

Good Luck in all you do.

***And for all those people who are going to give me a thumbs down go ahead. I don't care what you do I just gave my honest opinion. I have a right to my opinion just like you have the right to yours and to share it freely too.

ღJenniferღ

2007-12-21 02:10:36 UTC

A-What's your viewpoint on sex, pregnancy, & masturbation in general?

**No sex until marriage, masturbation - not for me.

B-Teen sex & pregnancy?

**irresponsability, instead of hitting the bed, hit the books for God's sake.

C-ADULT sex & pregnancy out of wedlock?

**I don't like it, but I'm not against it

D-Sex/pregnancy WITHIN the marriage?

*good, as long as you are ready.

E-Oral, anal, & vaginal sex?

*uh?

F-STD's?

**thats why God gave man the ability to create condoms.

G-Gay, lesbian, bisexual, transgendered sex?

**Not for them... Not against them

H-Giving birth-the pain & the joy?

**That's what being a mother is all about isn't it?

I-Promiscuity &/or no strings attached sex?

**huh?

J-Abstinence?

*Good,

K-The welfare system, like Temporary Assistance for Needy Families (TANF) & medicaid programs?

**Good for needy families.

L-Miscarriage &/or abortion & grief, guilt, & consequences?

**Sad for the family that has to go through that....

Happy Hoidays

Heather M

2007-12-21 02:35:30 UTC

a. my wiewpoint on sex is that it's nice but I think people put way too much of an emphasis on it and jump into it way too quickly. When I was in high school no one was pregnant in school (and I didn't graduate too long ago). Now you have at least 4 or 5 people pregnant before graduation. I think the obsession has gotten out of control. My view on masturbation is don't unless you are seriously lonely. If you have a partner and you are still masturbating there is a problem. Why are you with someone if your going to use your hand?

b. answer in first question - sorry : )

c. I think pregnancy out of wedlock can sometimes be an accident I just think people really need to have that discussion early in a relationship. If your having sex than you know pregnancy could happen. Talk about your parenting styles and make sure you both agree because if you don't and you get pregnant then your relationship may be ruined.

d. sex within a marriage needs spiced up here and there. I find that you have to add new things here and there to keep it interesting. I think sometimes people get bored abd that can hurt a relationship.

e. Oral sex is OK but I think both parties have to be ok with it. If one is for it and one against it that makes a pretty ackward time in bed. But I do think that people should not force boundaries if someone is against it than leave it alone don't try to force it. Anal sex - I see nothing good coming from that. It hurst and can cause damage I see no reason to do it.

f. std's - yuck! There definitely needs to be more discussion in a relationship about std's. I don't understand how one person could not tell another if they have an std. You are about to have sex with someone and get to know them intimately the least you could do is share with them what you have and let them make the decision with what happens to their own body.

g. Gay sex scares me. It just doesn't seem right to me. It causes so much damages and you could have everlasting effects from it.

h. giving birth is amazing yeah it hurts but you gave someone the miracle of life. It is true when they say that when the babies born you no longer think about the pain. You have a beautiful baby to take care of now.

i. No strings attached sex is ridiculous. You should only have sex with someone when you are serious about them. To me sex is an intimate thing and I don't understand how someone could share their body with an almost complete stranger. And if your both being promiscuous then think about all the other people your having sex with and the consequences of possibly getting an std. Not worth it to me.

j. Abstinence is awesome and tells alot about a persons character. They will get to know you and don't place an emphasis on sex. There is no pressure you can both move at a comfortable speed in the relationship.

k. welfare I believe doesn't work and too many people take advantage of it. You can have all your bills paid and free food what is the incentive to get out there and work. My mother in law has never had a job in her entire life and still get a paycheck. The government pays her to sit at home on her butt. She gets free food and get this - she lives in a low income apartment building which means your rent goes according to your paycheck. The government doesn't count the check they send to her each month as income so technically she makes $0 even though she is getting a free check each month. Since she makes no money her apartment building actually send her a $30 check each month to live there. Is that not ridiculous.

l. miscarriage is difficult. having a miscarriage in the beggining months is easier to deal with. It's still hard to get over but easier to handle. I have had a miscarriage at 3 months and it was hard. I couldn't imagine what it would be like carrying a baby for a long time and then miscarrying. That would be extremely hard to handle. Abortion I believe is absolutely uncessary. I could never understand why somone would want to kill something for their own mistake. It doesn't make sense. If you aren't ready for a baby then keep your pants zippered. And when people say it's not a baby yet - that's ridiculous. They just say that to make themselves feel better or make their beliefs seem ok. The whole pro-choice thing I could never understand either. People should have the choice to do what they want to thei own body but how can you make a decision for someone else as to what happens to their body. Does the baby have a choice? No you destroy their body because your excercising you right to do what you want with your own body. Seems sick and backwards to me.

Sorry everything was so long. Hope this helps : )

Aubs

2007-12-21 02:14:12 UTC

A- sex is something people do to show another that they love them, not something you just do to enjoy yourself, because others may pay the price in the future. Pregancy is necessary for people to be born into this world. Masturbation is a good way for teens to control their hormones without having sex.

B-There should be no such thing. Teens have no reason for having sex with someone they most likely won't end up with. They can bring a child into the world and put him/her into a horrible situation. Not to mention, it could really ruin your life if you aren't so lucky.

C- Sex is meant for adults. If they are in the right situation and are ready to care for a child, then it's ok. Be cautious and use protection if you don't want any pregancy.

D-It's how people are brought into this world eventually when the parents are ready for the responsibility. Need i say more?

E-It's a personal thing for someone to do. Some may like it, other's may not.

F-It's possible and many have to suffer. You need to trust the person you are having sex with and make sure you are safe from STD's

G- It's personal. Is it hurting you if someone else chooses how to participate in their sex life?

H-Of coarse it hurts like hell. But it's worth it! How else will we continue to survive if people stopped giving birth?

I-It's a personal choice. It really doesn't have a positive effect while making impressions on people. You shouldn't have to flaunt yourself to get someone in bed, espically if you are claimed to be in love.

J-The best thing out there. There would be a less risk of STD's. Prevents teens from giving birth when they aren't ready.

K-Some abuse it and some really need some temporary help. Like single moms. Damn you lazy a**es for abusing.

JennJenn

2007-12-21 02:23:37 UTC

a sex is a natural thing that people do. pregnancy is a gift that smtimes comes unplanned but is always worth it when its in the end. masturbation is fine, I dont do it myself but its better than promiscous sex

b im a teen and sex is just a part of life, im a virgin but i know tons or girls my age who arent. when you think your ready you should talk to your partner and decide if its right fir the both of them. and oreganacy as a teen is a risi g riskthat is part of life. I want kids young but realized the youngest I could do it is 17.

c. its the same as teenage sex and pregnancy just adults will be able to support the baby more easily.

d. a devoted couple sharing a bond and bro to g a child I to the world. I can't wait for that to happen for me.

e. oral is something most people do to plasurs there boyfriends without risking pregnancy. never done it yet. probably will soon. anal is something I'd never do. seems to painfully and creepy and gross. but is bcoming more socially acceptable. vaginal us the basic way and the most socially acceptable way of sex.

f. scary but I've educated myself as much as I can and I'm with the partner who is the one I'm going to lose my virginity to. I'm trying to stay as educated as I can to avoid them.

g. love is LCD. whateverhey do in there bdroom is allright with me.

h. its painful but your bringing a life into the world. there's nothing that could stop me from doing that. no amount if pain and I hate pain.

I. I couldn't do it cuz I'm an emotional person. id be too afraid if diseases or stds. but hey if it works for them.

j. its a hrd thing to do andi kniw im going to losemy virginity soon but if you have morals. more power to you.

k. if you need help get it.

l. im pro life. miscarraiges are so sad. if i had one id be so upset. you get so excited about bringing a life into the workd. than it gets taken away

anonymous

2007-12-21 04:59:51 UTC

(A)>Fine as long as you can take respnsibilty.Pregancy is great if you really want a child and you can support it.I think that people have a right to do it but i personally think its gross.

(B)>Fine if they can take the respnsibilty and are doing it responsibly and can take to consequences.

(C)>what wedlock?

(D)>Great! there are two parents and the baby would have a solid foundation. sex is a way to express their love.

(E)>I prefer receiving than giving but there is nothing wrong with it. I think anal sex is disgusting and the anal holds a lot of bacteria and isnt used to do that.Thats the basic way to have sex and is just sex.

(F)>Gross and very hurtful and could mess up your sex life forever.

(G)>I am not lesbian or anything i am straight but i am very for this subject. love is love.

(H)>Hurts like hell but your producing life. very "emotional"

(I)>Fine! but protect yourself

(J)>if thats what their religion is and it makes them feel better

(K)>i think its cool but when the family is able to get off of welfare they should. they shouldnt take advantage of it if they are doing anything to make the situation better.

(L)>miscarriage is very unfortunate. i am for abortion if you really wouldnt be able to support the baby

Lil mzz green eyez

2007-12-21 03:02:09 UTC

okay first off, im not against anything but i have some views.

A. sex is for people who are ready to deal with the consequences, i didnt think abotu that when i was younger. masturbation is healthy and i am a healthy girl lol

B. really i understand that accidents happen and some girls just really think they found their life partners (future husband) but i dont think that its a great thing. Btw, when i think of it, i just remember that way a long time ago, all girls had sex and had their first child by 14/15 im pretty sure.

C. well i am definetly not against it since im not actually married and i have 2 kids. but i do want to marry my daughter's father.

D. of course its not a problem

E. Well for me, I am open minded, for others, whatever floats your boat. u know?

F. well i really hope i dont ever get one (cause that would mean my fiance cheated on me) and i feel sorry for some of the people who do get them, especially uncurable stds (aids/hiv)

G. well its a no-no in the bible, but if they want to do it, im not gonna do anything to stop them. btw, i thought i was bisexual when i was younger.

H. love it all wanna do it again and again and again

I. no thanks

J. not for me

K. i have had to use them so i dont look down on them

L. i wont have an abortion and im sorry for people who have misscarriages

Catholic 14

2007-12-21 17:06:11 UTC

A- Sex is for married couples only, pregnancy should only be planed but unplaned is fine if you are married. keep the baby. if you can afford to raise it raise it but other wise--adoption. Masturbation--eww. i know it is ment to relieve sexual tention, but why would you want to have sex with yourself?

B-Teens should not be having sex! they need to focus on school or they will end up with not a great job. (this is in general alot of teens do well) (rape is different--keep baby but dont look down on them)

C- NO NO NO!! SEX IS FOR MARRIED ONLY! THEN THEY WONT GET PREGNANT(rape is another thing)

D-- THAT IS FINE!! BUT IF YOU DONT WANT TO GET PREGNANT USE NATURAL FAMILY PLANNING!!! NOT CONTRECEPTION

E- ORAL AND ANAL--GROSS--vaginal--isnt that regular sex?

F- bad and sad

G- Trans--NO! you were born the way you were for a reason. Les. and Gay--fine to feel that way just dont have relations with the same sex. BI--no

H- idk im a virgin

i-- dumb

J-- GREAT!! I LOVE IT!!! AND I AM WAITING FOR MARRAGE it is a smart way to know you are not pregnant

k--good if they are honest

L- MISSCARRGE-- SAD abortion--HORRIBLE

anonymous

2007-12-21 02:50:49 UTC

A.hmmmm.sex good...pregnancy sux(dealin w/it right now) masturbation...not reallly into it...

B.hmmmm im 14 and 3 months pregnant....it's really annoying....i hate the attitude i get towards it...okay i kno i ****** up...but i still shuld get some ***** respect

C.It's alwright....i kno im not gonna get married and sex is probably more fun when your older

D.it's cool of course.....

E.I've done it alll....anal sex hurts like helll....oral...I LUV IT

F.they suck...i've never had one thoughand i dont want one

G.hmmmm....nuttin to say

H.I'm guessing i'm gonna be in oodles of pain...but the joy is like a beast lol

I.i'm not promiscuos at all....i just call them sluts and it's not cool

J.no way....

K.is getting cheated by lazy bums....

L.abortions are terrible....and i would never do that...that's why i decided to have a teen pregnancy and keep the baby..it's the best thing to do....it is a consequence for making a grown-up decision