Should I wait (20 characters)?

Question

I am almost 15 and my boyfriend is turning 17, we have been intimate, but we haven't had sex. We have discussed it though, and I told him after I get on the pill(this summer when I turn 15), then I want to have sex with him. I was thinking we should wait another year, but by then he will be 18. Should I just wait until im 18 too so he doesn't go to jail?

Answer 1

If you are doubting having sex then you are clearly not ready yet. If you are certain that you want to have sex then none of us are going to stop you and our opinions won't matter. The fact that you are asking this question shows you are not ready yet.

Answer 2

The Bible clearly teaches that all sexual relations outside marriage are wrong in God's eyes. The Bible bluntly says, "Flee from sexual immorality" (1 Corinthians 6:18). This includes any kind of sexual activity apart from marriage.



Remember that God gave us the gift of sex in the first place—and He intended for it to be a source of joy and happiness for us. But He also intended for it to be restricted to marriage. Why? One reason is because it was to be a sign of the unity between a husband and wife. It was, in other words, meant to be an expression of their mutual commitment and love. But sex outside marriage easily becomes selfish, and even boring.



God knows what is best for us, including this important area of our lives. Why ignore His way, when it is best for us in the long run? The Bible warns, "There is a way that seems right to a man, but in the end it leads to death" (Proverbs 14:12) The Bible also promises, "Blessed are they whose ways are blameless" (Psalm 119:1).



There is forgiveness and new life for all who turn to Christ in repentance and faith. Yes, we live in a sex-saturated society—but with God's help we can follow a far better path.



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Answer 3

do u want him to suffer much nw or b cursed by all the people..doin sex at dis age isnt gud for ur health dear wait until u bcm 20 or till u get married wid him.. if u believe on ur self and on him wait till u bcm 20 soo dat u will b mature and knowin every thing..

Answer 4

If YOU want to have sex with him then you do that.



If you DON'T wanne have sex with him then you don't.



I'm sorry but people can spout a lot of bullshit reasons pro and contra but it's you that should decide.

Answer 5

You already confessed to the world. The sex police are probably already out there looking for your boyfriend. He will have to register as a sex offender for the rest of his life.

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