first most teens are not well informed enough about it. lets dispell some myths.
"rythym" or he pulls out ahead of time.wont work because some drops of very potent semen can be at the head from the moment of arousal and even if for some reson it was not that kind of control would take a great deal of concentation and experiance.
"the pill,the patch and like methods" a young womans body is going through tremendous physical changes even with adult women its not 100% efective and effects everyones system differently and many "failures" are from simple misuse.these methods must be used exactly as prescribed to be effetive. late or missed doses a path not on quite right or falling off or anythig that efects the drugs interaction with your system can make it fail.
"you cant get pregnant right before/after/during your period" wrong! every womans fertilty is different.bottom line, sperm meets egg and your a mommy.dont go by your cycle.
"doggie style, legs over head ect. ect.wont get you pregnant" do i even have to adress this one? no posistion prevents pregnancy.
same with in thh cold on a mountain during a full moon in water the list goes on and on.the truth...the tinyest amont of semen contacts your vagina and you cold be changing diapers soon.
"aunt so&so's homebrew" no home remedy or antient concoction is known to be reliable birth control,same for prayer,wishes on a star ect. biology trumps them all.
"condoms" good but not foolproof.they must be of good qaulity fit well be put on right and monitered during intercourse.consult a heath care professinal about these things if you want this method to work.
"boys lie lie lie!!!!" i no what im doing i wont get you pregnant i shoot blanks ill love you forever and raise it with you if you do, and the 10,000 other lines i have not thougt of.ladies when a boys hormones start flowing his brain is just along for the ride.yes even your guy with the so cute *** the great smile and the oh so honest pledge of his love for you.unless of curse he dosent have a penis.otherwise biology wins.
also remember there is no way for anyone to be sure the one thier with does not have an STD without medical testing.That goes for HIV AIDS Herpes Gohnarea Syphilis Hepatitis and any i forgot,NO SURE WAY.
Well didnt i make sex sound great.well it can be when its with the right person at the right time in your life.Waiting is not so bad.but if you absouluty refuse to wait PLEASE find an adult you can trust to talk to about it and protect yourself.
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