Mom died what do i do??

Question

I'm 14 and my mommy died on friday of stomach cancer. Its been really hard and to deal with it Idecided to stay with my dad while big sister and my little sister live with my grandparents. My grandma didn't like the idea but she let me go. My big sister is in college and only here for christmas. My little sister is only one. She had been fine but today she just started crying for her mommy. She wouldn't stop. I had to come over there to help them out. When I came I got her to calm down. When I had to leave she cried to go with me. She like litteraly screamed. When my mom got sick I was the one to take care of her. Anytime I wasn't at school I was with her. So now having me and my mom gone she has no one. I hate to see my sister in pain. It hurts me so bad. My dad said he would love to bring her with us. My grandma doesn't think its good for her. I think it is. She needs me and she needs her dad. When my sister goes back it would just be my grandma and my grandma doesn't have the patience for a one year old. My dad has a fiance who has been helping me through all this and is willing to take care of her. I don't want to hurt my grandmas feelings but my sister needs me. How do I tell her that she needs to be with us? How do I get through all of this?? This is too much!! I want my mommy back!!
RIP MOMMY I love you<3

Answer 1

I'm sorry for you lost , And i just think your just an amazing sister plus daughter . I would just tell her how you feel one on one . :) Tell her everything . Don't hold back but keep your cool and stay calm . Good luck

Answer 2

I'm so sorry for your loss. I cant even imagine what you are going through right now. You just need to be the best sister that you can and try and help everyone out. But at the same time you don't have to be the one that stays strong for everyone else, it is still alright to show your emotions because everyone around you is hurting too. Just keep trying to get through it one day at a time.

Answer 3

you are very strong, mature, and caring....you need to remind your sister of all the good times you had with your mom but you also need to talk about the times when she was in the worst pain and let her know that she is in heaven watching over,and with you all the....and making sure your safe. its not that shes gone,, shes just there in a different way that she ever was before.....i am so sorry but i am glad that your sisters have you :) also , its not like you have to stop talking to her ...maybe you and your sisters could



i hope you have a great christmas and im sure your mom will be there with you celebrating the whole time:)

Answer 4

I am so sorry for what you are going through. But remember, she is still with you. She will always be with you. The ones that die are never gone, they find a good place in our heart that we keep there forever.



Your sister does need you, and it is the right thing for her to come and live with your father and his fiance. They sound nice, and it seems like a good thing for her. Have your father talk to your grandmother. Legally, he has the rights to his children, anyway -- she's only one. Just keep your head up, sweetie, things will get better. May God bless you and give you the best of luck.

Answer 5

i kno who u feel sweetie my dad died wen i was young 2 ur grandma probably feels like u n ur lil sis r the closest thing to ur mom she has left if ur lil sis needs u that bad go b with her if ur grandma wont let u take her shes scared n doesnt kno wuts goin on n i kno this might hurt but she will 4get soon since she so lil stay wit her till she gets used 2 ur grandma or give ur grandma some of ur moms old shirts they will help ur lil sis get attached to her easier....hope i helped

Answer 6

As a father myself, I see how much my daughter (shes 16 now) used to rely on her mother, and if something ever happened to her mom I couldnt imagine letter her go with her grandparents instead of me. I say fight for you guys to be with your dad, cause if he's anything like me he would move the earth to protect you girls.



Bill W.

Answer 7

Aww, well I can tell you one thing your mother raised a fine young lady.

:)

R.I.P to your mommy`



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