Please help me, guy is kinda disfortunate looking?!!?

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Please help me, guy is kinda disfortunate looking?!!?
Okay, so I've been talking to this boy with a really really low self-esteem. And awhile ago I told him tat he was a hottie, because he was like crying because he thought that he was ugly.. now he's asking me what I think is so hott about him.. and i onestly dont know wa to say! So... what should I tell a really sweet guy who i want to feel good about himself, when he really is disfortunate looking? I already tried the whole, 'your personality is amazing' and 'i love your smile' but he wasnt buying it.. he wants straight up physical compliments.. help?!

Answer 1

I love the term "disfortunate looking"

Just give him the physical compliments then but don't seem flirty

No harm done

Answer 2

you mean unfortunate, disfortunate is not a word

umm try finding something that is nice or not that bad and just saying a lot of nice things about it, if you can't find anything do the whole not-really-a-lie-but-sort-of-a-compliment like I've never seen eyes like yours or your eyes are so unique...good luck

Answer 3

basically say something like, i think of you have effective shoulders. Then say something such as you will look much greater warm in case you got a tan and began determining heavily. that facilitates you to compliment him yet in a suttle trend to the place you're actually not destroying your person integrity. I new this lady who became somewhat grotesque and that i did the comparable factor. She then would communicate with me forever. That twelve months, I threw up all of Spring harm everytime I heard her call. each so often being effective isn't so effective to your self.

Answer 4

You shouldn't have lied to him in the first place. Now he truly believes you think he looks good. So tell him straight up the truth, but not in a mean way.

Answer 5

no dont tell him what you really think of him. that would really break his heart and it sounds like you were one of the first persons to give him a compliment so he wants to relive it. so say something about his posture (the way he holds himself like confident looking, maybe he has nice skin, of tallness, or nice smile, or nice eyes and if you have to exaggerate a little or make something up, do it.

Answer 6

Don't lie anymore. Tell him that on the inside, he is very attractive.



Tell him that he has a big heart and is super kind which is very attractive overall=]

Answer 7

Tell him you honestly don't look at him in a negative way (Such as Physical Attraction) that you only look at what within,

Answer 8

His gorgeous eyes are the window to his beautiful soul.

Answer 9

well if he's ugly u can't tell him that he's hot.! You shouldn't have lied to him

well tell him his eyes or hair..something like that.

Answer 10

just say I think your really cute as a girls perspective :p no lying.